I can't help but think you're taking your examples of daily kickings too far. The fear of taking a beating often outweighs the beating itself anyway.
I don't look at playing against the big boys through goggles of trepidation so much as windows of opportunity. The point is I'd rather take a worthy win over an expected one.
It's a mindset which sets me apart from internet followers of the so called big boys for example. In life you can't reach your potential if you don't test yourself. It's similar with football.
On a wider point I'd still prefer to kick a bully in the gruddocks and take the consequences than become a bully. I was born broken anyway so I don't see it as a problem .
Blimey Smethdan this has been so similar to my own creed we might be twin souls.(god forbid)
. Fully agree with nearly all you say here and it ought to be something set in stone for others to follow.
However I would slightly modify it in my own case. (disagree is far too strong). In the case of taking on the bully. Me not being an 'ard mon' I would much prefer a time and a place of my own choosing, take any advantage I could get and I would never take him on in a fair fight. I would cheat like **** , attack him without any provocation or warning when his back was turned with any weapon I could get hold of. Just to put him away first, then do him over so bad he would not be able to bully anybody for a long time. To beat the bully you have to be the hardest. You have to be the one who makes the rules about who gets done and who doesn't. Then you can stop all of it because it becomes your choice.
As a football club you cannot do this and we have to accept we have no chance of ever being being one of the rule makers in the premier league. But we can sometimes take on the cheating bullying ******** if we understand exactly what
we are and where
our strengths lie, or find ways to gain unfair advantages. Maybe a Barca/vile attitude to buying young quality players and just not bothering to pay the club who nurtured them would be a good starting point? If that means a season in the champs to change things to try to come back stronger and more able to mix it on their terms, so be it. It is not where I want us to be but will enjoy the recently rare experience of maybe winning a few games, and the strong possibility of promotion to have another go the season after.
It is true a lot needs to happen at our club to come back stronger and the debate on here shows how complex it will be. We can only hope that the club has enough good luck to get more right than wrong and that in a couple of seasons we can be where we belong back with the resources, the management and playing skills to be mixing it again with the very best in the country. And lets just see if we can kick a few more of these bullies in the gruddocks.