IMO the way Pulis sees things is pretty binary, "If you're not part of the solution, you're part of the problem. Sort yourself out to be included in the solution." It took a while to get Saido to understand that, but now he does.
Pulis sees his job as preparing the team to win football matches, that's all. He's not a nanny or development coach, that role belongs to others.
In my working career, I've had autocratic & democratic bosses, the democratic bosses have been nicer to work for & I have been happy in my job, but the autocratic ones drove far more out of me, than I thought I was capable of.
Back to Saido, if he stays, I think we, the fans, should cut him some slack, but we won't we'll hound him out, exactly the same as we'll hound Pulis out, because we want our club back.
Except, that in a few weeks time, it won't be an English club any more, it will be Chinese, & be influenced by Chinese culture.