If Bristow had simply said that he couldnt understand why the abusers didnt seek physical retribution when they were older you could understand his question. Unfortunately, being a motor mouth, he then had to jump to ill informed conclusions about the manhood of the victims.
I doubt Eric reads this webpage but if he read the following it might help to answer his question....
...I know someone who was sexually abused as a young lad who as a a result turned into the most violent and vicious person you could ever have the misfortune to meet. Such was his level of violence that he ended up behind bars. But he was never able to face his perpetrator. To have had to face him would have been too much for him. Like so many, his perpatrator is dead without facing justice.
This particular victim has an amazing story and is now a massive force for good in our community. If you want to read his story its Prison Without Bars by Graham Swann.
What I find more shocking than Bristow's ignorant & offensive comments is the news that Chelsea football club paid hush money to someone in 2015 to cover up abuse. 2015!!!!! not 1975 or even 1995. 2015, when the extent of former child abuse in this country was well known. Frankly they have broken every child protection rule in the book. If they were an old peoples care home they would be shut down. End of. Frankly I think they should be thrown out of the league.