I totally agree Atomic. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion but I honestly find many of the comments on the in game chat absolutely cringeworthy. Not only should DM be sacked but his gradual disappearance from management were among the comments that shocked me.
The guy is doing well and we must never underestimate the task he had in terms of turning around a team that only knew one way of playing.
Stating the obvious I know, but extreme negative and positive comments are in the DNA of every football fan and we should not be surprised to read what some consider “cringe worthyâ€, which I admit to having sympathy with.
We want our team to win, to do well and to be successful. Football, as we all know, is a game of passions and emotions that involves boarding a rollercoaster, otherwise referred to as a "football match". Fans operate at extremes when onboard this rollercoaster; they travel along a track or continuum of pessimism at one end and optimism at the other end during the match. There are "ups and downs" and, at times they experience either irrational pessimism or optimism and every point in between because of their desire for the team to win. There are occasions when the "ups and downs" even themselves out during the course of the match and the normative is restored by the end of it if we have won, as we did last night.
I think that in the cold light of day, many of the extreme negative and positive comments some posters make are tempered by a post realism and a more forensic analysis of the game. Of course fans have deep seated opinions, value systems, beliefs and views and that goes for both negative and positive types. These affect their perception of a player or a head coach and that perception will only change over time with their perceived contribution, or otherwise, that the player of head coach is having on the success of the team.
So, take it all with a pinch of salt, it happens in the heat of the battle and challenge it if you need to, but always remember we are passionate fans and sometimes the passion is overtakes the logic and can be “cringe worthyâ€, but it is, invariable, a passing, but recurring phase.
I’m sure the following saying is a well recited mantra for many a player, head coach and manager et al.
“You can please some of the people all of the time, you can please all of the people some of the time, but you can’t please all the people all of the timeâ€
COYB!!!!